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Shanghainese pronouns

Not one of the six Shanghainese pronouns is the Mandarin word. Learn them and you can identify the language from a single sentence — which is more than the writing system will ever tell you.

Updated 20 September 2026 · 4 min read

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The paradigm

Six words. No gender, no case, no agreement: the same form is subject and object, and the third person covers he, she and it alike.

SingularPlural
1st person ngu ‘I, me’阿拉 a la ‘we, us’
2nd person non ‘you’ na ‘you (plural)’
3rd person yi ‘he, she, it’伊拉 yi la ‘they, them’

The plurals of the first and third person are built with a suffix — yi ‘he’ plus -la gives 伊拉 yi la ‘they’ — while na ‘you (plural)’ is its own word. Shanghainese is not a pro-drop language: unlike some languages you cannot simply leave the pronoun out.

Why 侬 is the fastest tell in the language

non ‘you’ is the single most useful diagnostic word in Shanghainese. It is in a huge proportion of ordinary speech — every question you ask someone, every thank-you, since 谢谢侬 zia zia non ‘thank you’ carries it — and it is not the Mandarin word for you.

That matters more here than in most languages, because Shanghainese is written with Mandarin’s characters. A written sentence gives almost nothing away: the characters for person, water and time are the same in both. The pronouns are the exception, and they are visible on the page as well as audible.

MeaningShanghaineseMandarin
I, me ngu
you non
he, she yi
we阿拉 a la我们 wǒmen
you (plural) na你们 nǐmen
they伊拉 yi la他们 tāmen

The first row is the trap. The character is the same — 我 in both — but it is said ngu, not . Younger Shanghai speakers are recorded as tending towards wu, which is a step closer to Mandarin. Every other row differs in the character too, so a sentence containing or 他们 tāmen is Mandarin, whatever else is around it.

Where 阿拉 came from

阿拉 a la ‘we, us’ is the word Shanghai is known by across China — it turns up in the names of shops and in the way other Chinese cities imitate Shanghai speech. It is also not originally from Shanghai.

Older Shanghainese used 我伲 ngu nyi ‘we’, and you will still hear that from older speakers. 阿拉 a la ‘we’ came in from the speech of Ningbo, about a hundred miles down the coast, carried by the very large Ningbo migration into Shanghai as the city grew — and it displaced the local form. Xu and Tang’s 1988 description of urban Shanghainese records the borrowing.

It is a good illustration of what Shanghainese is: a city language assembled over about a century and a half, in which some of the most characteristically Shanghai words arrived from elsewhere. How the city’s speech sits among its neighbours is on the Suzhou, Ningbo and Hangzhou page.

Whether 阿拉 a la ‘we’ includes the person you are speaking to is a point the reference grammars disagree on. Zhu (2006) says Shanghainese has no separate inclusive form; Hashimoto (1971) reads 阿拉 as inclusive. In practice nobody will misunderstand you either way.

Possessives

Add gheh ‘’s’ to the pronoun. There are no separate possessive words to learn:

That particle is itself one of the words that separates the two languages: Shanghainese uses gheh ‘’s’ where Mandarin uses 的. Its pronunciation is a glottalised weakening of the reading you would otherwise expect for the character, which is part of why it is written several different ways. Possession is only one of the five jobs it does — it is also the general classifier, a nominaliser and a definite article — and they are set out on the classifiers page.

Reflexives

One word for every person: 自家 zy ka ‘oneself’. There is no series of forms to match to the subject.

Putting them to work

Pronouns are the first thing worth learning in this language, because they let you build a sentence immediately and they let you recognise one. A handful of examples using nothing but the paradigm above and the negative veh ‘not’:

Two things a sentence needs that are not on this page: the classifier that has to sit between a number and a noun, which is on the classifiers page, and the numbers themselves, on the numbers page.

The rest of the grammar — the copula, negation, aspect, where things are — is on the grammar page, and it is not much longer than this one. The words for asking who and what, which behave like pronouns and stay where the answer would go, are on the question words page.

Sources

  1. Zhu, Xiaonong (2006). A Grammar of Shanghai Wu, pp. 64–66. LINCOM Europa. Cited in Wikipedia: Shanghainese, pronouns.
  2. Hashimoto, M. J. (1971). A Guide to the Shanghai Dialect, p. 249. Princeton University Press.
  3. Xu, Baohua and Tang, Zhenzhu (1988). 《上海市区方言志》, p. 418, on 阿拉 originating in Ningbo speech.
  4. Chao, Yuen Ren (1967). Contrastive Aspects of the Wu Dialects. Language 43(1), p. 99, on generational variation in the plural pronouns.
  5. Wiktionary: 阿拉

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